I Wish You Knew

Is It Ever the Same After an Affair? Dr. Alexandra Solomon & Adam Lane Smith

In this insightful episode, Dr. Alexandra Solomon, a renowned psychologist and expert on relationships and intimacy, joins attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith to answer one of the hardest questions couples face: Can a relationship ever truly recover after an affair? Whether you’ve experienced betrayal or fear it might happen, this episode offers honest answers and real hope.
Topics Covered👉 The psychological impact of infidelity, including PTSD symptoms in betrayed partners👉 Whether love and trust can truly be rebuilt after someone cheats👉 Who cheats more—men or women? Exploring modern trends and cultural shifts👉 What motivates infidelity, and how it’s often tied to identity and emotional disconnect👉 How insecure attachment styles like anxious-avoidant dynamics set the stage for betrayal👉 Why communication breakdowns lead to emotional distance and vulnerability to affairs👉 The path to sexual healing after infidelity and why pleasure can be part of the repair👉 Unlearning toxic sex scripts shaped by porn and cultural myths👉 What a “bulletproof relationship” looks like, and how couples can protect against future betrayals👉 The emotional and behavioral transformation required of the partner who cheated
Affairs can devastate—but they can also awaken. Dr. Solomon and Adam Lane Smith share how, with courage and commitment, couples can turn betrayal into breakthrough. For those navigating pain, rebuilding trust, or learning to love securely, this episode offers not just insight—but a roadmap.
Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’  https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc 
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com 
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-------------------------------------------------Dr. Alexandra Solomon-------------------------------------------------Website: https://dralexandrasolomon.com/IG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.alexandra.solomon/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/alexandrahs1 -------------------------------------------------The next episode drops Thursday :)See you there.
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When Attachment Becomes a Disorder: Can Personality Disorders Be Fixed? | Adam Lane Smith

In this episode, Andrey and Adam unpack the deep connection between attachment styles and personality disorders. Together, they explore how childhood trauma, neurological stress, and emotional dysregulation contribute to avoidant, anxious, and disorganized attachment—and how these patterns can evolve into more severe conditions like borderline personality disorder, bipolar disorder, and even schizophrenia. Adam challenges the medical model, offering hopeful insights on healing, brain health, and the possibility of recovery without relying solely on medication.
✨ Topics Covered ✨👉 The difference between attachment styles and personality disorders👉 How avoidant behaviors can be self-protective—or damaging👉 The impact of early childhood trauma on long-term attachment👉 Why the medical model often mislabels people as “broken”👉 How avoidant attachment differs from avoidant personality disorder👉 The trauma roots of borderline personality disorder (BPD)👉 The connection between high-performance households and emotional suppression👉 What’s really happening in the brain during bipolar disorder👉 The dangers of overmedication and brain inflammation👉 Why even schizophrenia can be helped through functional systems👉 Finland’s powerful approach to treating schizophrenia without meds👉 How social bonding and oxytocin lead to brain healing👉 Why chronic stress blocks your potential—and how attachment healing unlocks it👉 A powerful metaphor about “loving a crocodile” and staying in unsafe emotional patterns
Healing from childhood trauma—especially when it starts as early as age 6—takes courage, patience, and truth. If this conversation helped you feel seen or understood, consider sharing it with someone who’s walking a similar path. You’re not alone—and there’s real hope for healing and freedom.
Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’  https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc 
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com 
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Evan Marc Katz & Adam Lane Smith Heated Debate | Can We Truly Change Our Partner?

In this episode, Evan Marc Katz joins Adam Lane Smith for a fiery and thought-provoking debate on one of the most challenging questions in relationships: Can we truly change our partner—or is it all about accepting them as they are? From practical dating strategies to deeper emotional dynamics, this conversation dives into the complexities of modern love and long-term compatibility.
✨ Key Topics Covered:👉 Can good relationships be effortless—or do they always require "hard work"?👉 Why trying to filter a future husband through dating profiles might be sabotaging your chances👉 The hidden danger of rushing relationships due to urgency or age👉 Do men doing more chores really lead to higher divorce rates?👉 Why chemistry fades—and what truly keeps couples together long-term👉 Understanding attachment styles: anxious vs. avoidant in real-life dynamics👉 How discomfort can be a sign of growth in a healthy relationship👉 Can emotionally avoidant men become devoted, secure partners?👉 The power of conflict resolution and reading emotional cues👉 What makes two people truly compatible—beyond cliches
Whether you're single and searching or in the middle of navigating a tough dynamic, this conversation offers powerful insights into love, growth, and emotional responsibility. To dive deeper into relationship skills, check out Adam's retreat offerings at https://adamlanesmith.com/retreat/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=avoidant&utm_content=descriptionlink
Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’  https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc 
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com 
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--------------------------------------------------Evan Marc Katz:--------------------------------------------------IG: https://www.instagram.com/realevanmarckatz/?hl=en Website: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/
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He Broke Her Heart But Won Her Back | Brandon Doerkse

Brandon Doerkse opens up about how he nearly lost his marriage due to emotional numbness, distraction, and addiction. For years, he struggled with avoidance, failing to recognize how his actions were eroding the trust and intimacy in his relationship. It wasn’t until he hit rock bottom that he realized the painful truth—his marriage was falling apart, and he was the one responsible.
Topics Covered:👉 The impact of emotional disconnection in marriage👉 How avoidance and addiction sabotage relationships👉 Why men must take the first step in healing a broken relationship👉 Understanding attachment styles and their effect on marriage👉 The painful realization that led Brandon to transformation👉 How honesty and accountability helped rebuild trust👉 The importance of integration with God, family, and self👉 What true masculine leadership in marriage looks like
Brandon’s journey proves that no matter how broken a relationship may seem, healing is possible when a man is willing to confront his shortcomings and take responsibility. His story is a powerful testament to the importance of emotional awareness, faith, and intentional action in restoring love and trust.
If this conversation spoke to you, share your thoughts in the comments. Have you faced similar struggles in your relationship? What steps have helped you move forward? Let’s continue the conversation below.
Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’  https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc 
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com 
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The next episode drops Thursday :)See you there.
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Attachment Specialist Fixes Toxic Marriage | Adam Lane Smith The Attachment Specialist

In this episode, Adam Lane Smith, the Attachment Specialist, navigates the challenges of a toxic marriage. Through raw and honest conversations, Adam uncovers the root causes of their struggles and offers practical guidance to rebuild trust, communication, and emotional connection. Whether you’re facing similar issues or just want to strengthen your relationship, this episode is packed with insights and advice that can make a real difference.
Topics Covered:👉 The impact of unresolved trauma on marriage and relationships👉 How pressure and past experiences shape relationship dynamics👉 Addressing touch aversion and intimacy issues👉 The importance of emotional regulation and safe communication👉 Building a healthy legacy for children and breaking toxic patterns👉 Strategies to create a secure and loving environment for the whole family
Adam provides powerful insights and actionable steps to help couples rebuild connection and create a healthier, more fulfilling relationship. No matter where you are in your journey, this episode offers hope and practical guidance to transform your relationship dynamics. Don’t miss this transformative conversation—tune in now!
Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’  https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc 
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com 
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Adam Lane Smith & Shallon Lester: Avoidant Attachment Red Flags – “Never Trust Words Alone”

In this episode, Adam Lane Smith and Shallon Lester expose the hidden red flags of avoidant attachment and why trusting words alone can lead to heartbreak. They break down the toxic dating patterns that leave women feeling unworthy, discuss why men rarely change without consequences, and share practical strategies to build secure, lasting relationships.
Topics Covered:👉 Why many women settle in relationships out of fear of abandonment👉 The rise of emotionally unavailable men and the impact on dating👉 Shallon’s no-nonsense approach to breakups and setting boundaries👉 Why men rarely change without external consequences👉 The power of emotional detachment and firm boundaries in dating👉 How women can communicate their needs effectively without manipulation👉 The dangers of relying on a partner to define one’s purpose👉 The struggle of modern women between career success and traditional roles
Adam and Shallon reveal the key mindset shifts needed to break free from avoidant attachment and create fulfilling relationships. If you're tired of toxic dating cycles and want real, actionable advice, this episode is a must-watch.
Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’  https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc 
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com 
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--------------------------------------------------Shallon Lester:IG: https://www.instagram.com/shallonxo/?hl=enYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCygmWL3k4EpxBmWGGBs5ldw
The next episode drops Thursday :)See you there.

Female Entitlement or Male Weakness? @Hoemath

In this episode, we dive into the growing divide between men and women in modern society. Our guest, HTH, joins the conversation to explore the cultural and psychological shifts affecting relationships, attachment dynamics, and societal structures.
Topics Covered:
👉 The messaging that paints men as villains and its long-term impact👉 Why men are walking away from relationships and societal expectations👉 The rise of cultural and gender conflicts across the world👉 How attachment styles influence modern relationships👉 The effects of societal collapse on human behavior and survival instincts👉 The growing divide between entitlement and responsibility in today's world
If you're struggling with attachment issues or navigating the complexities of modern relationships, our specialized program can help. Designed with structured guidance, it offers a step-by-step approach to healing and personal growth. Join us and take control of your journey.
Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist’ https://youtu.be/QiPEH0o3EKA 
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The Dark Truth Behind My Secure Attachment: Attachment Specialist Adam Lane Smith Tells All

Alyssa shares how growing up in an environment that discouraged emotional expression led to survival-mode thinking. She describes the intense stress it placed on her nervous system and the difficulty of accessing emotional regulation.
✨  Main Topics Covered ✨ 
👉 The long-term effects of survivalist attachment and avoidant behaviors 👉 The struggle of balancing masculine and feminine energy in childhood and adulthood👉 The role of meditation as both a coping mechanism and a trap for avoidant individuals 👉 The journey of healing from disorganized attachment through therapy, mentorship, and faith 👉 The importance of self-reflection and ongoing personal development in overcoming attachment wounds 👉 How structured programs and accountability help individuals repair attachment challenges 
Adam highlights the value of deep self-work and structured guidance in overcoming avoidant attachment. He encourages listeners to seek support and engage in personal development to build healthier emotional connections.
Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist’ https://youtu.be/QiPEH0o3EKA 
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Why Women Settle (and How to Finally Put Yourself First)

Many women find themselves in relationships that look perfect on paper but leave them feeling unfulfilled. In this episode, dating expert Julia Mazur shares her personal journey of settling in relationships and how she finally broke free. She discusses societal expectations, personal struggles, and the key mindset shifts needed to prioritize yourself in love and life.
✨ Main Topics Covered ✨
👉 The dating challenges many women face and why they often settle.👉 The influence of cultural and family expectations on relationships.👉 The emotional toll of being in a relationship with the “ideal” partner.👉 How loneliness and lack of fulfillment pushed Julia to reassess her choices.👉 The dangers of love bombing and future faking in dating.👉 The importance of filtering potential partners through meaningful questions.👉 Understanding feminine energy and how it impacts attraction.👉 Why being interested in your partner is more important than trying to be interesting.
Julia emphasizes that true happiness in relationships starts with self-worth and refusing to settle. She encourages women to trust their instincts, set higher standards, and embrace independence rather than staying in relationships out of fear.
Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist’ https://youtu.be/QiPEH0o3EKA 
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Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. 
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Adam Lane Smith Coaches an Avoidant Woman LIVE

🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with hosts Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. 
 
Emily Humpert opens up about her struggles with relationships, attachment challenges, and emotional intimacy. Adam Lane Smith helps her uncover the roots of her avoidance and how it impacts her connections with others.
 
Topics Covered:
👉 Struggles with relationships and repeated failures
👉 Avoidant attachment and emotional barriers
👉 Fear of sacrifice in relationships
👉 The myth of a ‘perfect match’
👉 Recognizing personal needs in relationships
👉 Emotional intimacy challenges for high performers
👉 Family influence on attachment styles
👉 Oxytocin’s role in emotional bonding
👉 Steps toward secure attachment
 
The episode concludes with a reflection on attachment styles and how emotional avoidance may impact relationships. It emphasizes the importance of emotional connection and suggests working toward secure attachment for long-term relational success. If you’re struggling with attachment challenges, consider joining the Attachment Repair Program to build healthier, lasting relationships.
 
Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!
If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist’ https://youtu.be/QiPEH0o3EKA 
 
Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount 
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Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  
A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.
 
Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. 
 
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