I Wish You Knew

Join the duo, Andrey Korikov, and Adam Lane Smith The Attachment Specialist, as they cut through the noise with bold, unfiltered discussions on love, connection, and relationships. From questions about love, psychology, and relationships to discussing the latest shifts in the culture and media, they’ll cover it all. If you’re ready for a podcast that’s as insightful and real as it gets—buckle up and get ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about relationships!

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2 hours ago

He Broke Her Heart But Won Her Back | Brandon Doerkse

2 hours ago

Brandon Doerkse opens up about how he nearly lost his marriage due to emotional numbness, distraction, and addiction. For years, he struggled with avoidance, failing to recognize how his actions were eroding the trust and intimacy in his relationship. It wasn’t until he hit rock bottom that he realized the painful truth—his marriage was falling apart, and he was the one responsible.
Topics Covered:👉 The impact of emotional disconnection in marriage👉 How avoidance and addiction sabotage relationships👉 Why men must take the first step in healing a broken relationship👉 Understanding attachment styles and their effect on marriage👉 The painful realization that led Brandon to transformation👉 How honesty and accountability helped rebuild trust👉 The importance of integration with God, family, and self👉 What true masculine leadership in marriage looks like
Brandon’s journey proves that no matter how broken a relationship may seem, healing is possible when a man is willing to confront his shortcomings and take responsibility. His story is a powerful testament to the importance of emotional awareness, faith, and intentional action in restoring love and trust.
If this conversation spoke to you, share your thoughts in the comments. Have you faced similar struggles in your relationship? What steps have helped you move forward? Let’s continue the conversation below.
Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’ https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
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The next episode drops Thursday :)See you there.
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7 days ago

Attachment Specialist Fixes Toxic Marriage | Adam Lane Smith The Attachment Specialist

7 days ago

In this episode, Adam Lane Smith, the Attachment Specialist, navigates the challenges of a toxic marriage. Through raw and honest conversations, Adam uncovers the root causes of their struggles and offers practical guidance to rebuild trust, communication, and emotional connection. Whether you’re facing similar issues or just want to strengthen your relationship, this episode is packed with insights and advice that can make a real difference.
Topics Covered:👉 The impact of unresolved trauma on marriage and relationships👉 How pressure and past experiences shape relationship dynamics👉 Addressing touch aversion and intimacy issues👉 The importance of emotional regulation and safe communication👉 Building a healthy legacy for children and breaking toxic patterns👉 Strategies to create a secure and loving environment for the whole family
Adam provides powerful insights and actionable steps to help couples rebuild connection and create a healthier, more fulfilling relationship. No matter where you are in your journey, this episode offers hope and practical guidance to transform your relationship dynamics. Don’t miss this transformative conversation—tune in now!
Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’ https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
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Friday Mar 21, 2025

Adam Lane Smith & Shallon Lester: Avoidant Attachment Red Flags – “Never Trust Words Alone”

Friday Mar 21, 2025

In this episode, Adam Lane Smith and Shallon Lester expose the hidden red flags of avoidant attachment and why trusting words alone can lead to heartbreak. They break down the toxic dating patterns that leave women feeling unworthy, discuss why men rarely change without consequences, and share practical strategies to build secure, lasting relationships.
Topics Covered:👉 Why many women settle in relationships out of fear of abandonment👉 The rise of emotionally unavailable men and the impact on dating👉 Shallon’s no-nonsense approach to breakups and setting boundaries👉 Why men rarely change without external consequences👉 The power of emotional detachment and firm boundaries in dating👉 How women can communicate their needs effectively without manipulation👉 The dangers of relying on a partner to define one’s purpose👉 The struggle of modern women between career success and traditional roles
Adam and Shallon reveal the key mindset shifts needed to break free from avoidant attachment and create fulfilling relationships. If you're tired of toxic dating cycles and want real, actionable advice, this episode is a must-watch.
Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’ https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
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--------------------------------------------------Shallon Lester:IG: https://www.instagram.com/shallonxo/?hl=enYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCygmWL3k4EpxBmWGGBs5ldw
The next episode drops Thursday :)See you there.

Friday Mar 14, 2025

Female Entitlement or Male Weakness? @Hoemath

Friday Mar 14, 2025

In this episode, we dive into the growing divide between men and women in modern society. Our guest, HTH, joins the conversation to explore the cultural and psychological shifts affecting relationships, attachment dynamics, and societal structures.
Topics Covered:
👉 The messaging that paints men as villains and its long-term impact👉 Why men are walking away from relationships and societal expectations👉 The rise of cultural and gender conflicts across the world👉 How attachment styles influence modern relationships👉 The effects of societal collapse on human behavior and survival instincts👉 The growing divide between entitlement and responsibility in today's world
If you're struggling with attachment issues or navigating the complexities of modern relationships, our specialized program can help. Designed with structured guidance, it offers a step-by-step approach to healing and personal growth. Join us and take control of your journey.
Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist’ https://youtu.be/QiPEH0o3EKA
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Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.
Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.
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The next episode drops Thursday :)See you there.
Visit: https://iwishyouknew.show/ to lean more about the podcast
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Friday Mar 07, 2025

The Dark Truth Behind My Secure Attachment: Attachment Specialist Adam Lane Smith Tells All

Friday Mar 07, 2025

Alyssa shares how growing up in an environment that discouraged emotional expression led to survival-mode thinking. She describes the intense stress it placed on her nervous system and the difficulty of accessing emotional regulation.
✨ Main Topics Covered ✨
👉 The long-term effects of survivalist attachment and avoidant behaviors 👉 The struggle of balancing masculine and feminine energy in childhood and adulthood👉 The role of meditation as both a coping mechanism and a trap for avoidant individuals 👉 The journey of healing from disorganized attachment through therapy, mentorship, and faith 👉 The importance of self-reflection and ongoing personal development in overcoming attachment wounds 👉 How structured programs and accountability help individuals repair attachment challenges
Adam highlights the value of deep self-work and structured guidance in overcoming avoidant attachment. He encourages listeners to seek support and engage in personal development to build healthier emotional connections.
Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist’ https://youtu.be/QiPEH0o3EKA
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Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.
Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.
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The next episode drops Thursday :)See you there.
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Saturday Mar 01, 2025

Why Women Settle (and How to Finally Put Yourself First)

Saturday Mar 01, 2025

Many women find themselves in relationships that look perfect on paper but leave them feeling unfulfilled. In this episode, dating expert Julia Mazur shares her personal journey of settling in relationships and how she finally broke free. She discusses societal expectations, personal struggles, and the key mindset shifts needed to prioritize yourself in love and life.
✨ Main Topics Covered ✨
👉 The dating challenges many women face and why they often settle.👉 The influence of cultural and family expectations on relationships.👉 The emotional toll of being in a relationship with the “ideal” partner.👉 How loneliness and lack of fulfillment pushed Julia to reassess her choices.👉 The dangers of love bombing and future faking in dating.👉 The importance of filtering potential partners through meaningful questions.👉 Understanding feminine energy and how it impacts attraction.👉 Why being interested in your partner is more important than trying to be interesting.
Julia emphasizes that true happiness in relationships starts with self-worth and refusing to settle. She encourages women to trust their instincts, set higher standards, and embrace independence rather than staying in relationships out of fear.
Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist’ https://youtu.be/QiPEH0o3EKA
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Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.
Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
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The next episode drops Thursday :)See you there.
Visit: https://iwishyouknew.show/ to lean more about the podcast
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Friday Feb 21, 2025

Adam Lane Smith Coaches an Avoidant Woman LIVE

Friday Feb 21, 2025

🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with hosts Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media.

Emily Humpert opens up about her struggles with relationships, attachment challenges, and emotional intimacy. Adam Lane Smith helps her uncover the roots of her avoidance and how it impacts her connections with others.

Topics Covered:
👉 Struggles with relationships and repeated failures
👉 Avoidant attachment and emotional barriers
👉 Fear of sacrifice in relationships
👉 The myth of a ‘perfect match’
👉 Recognizing personal needs in relationships
👉 Emotional intimacy challenges for high performers
👉 Family influence on attachment styles
👉 Oxytocin’s role in emotional bonding
👉 Steps toward secure attachment

The episode concludes with a reflection on attachment styles and how emotional avoidance may impact relationships. It emphasizes the importance of emotional connection and suggests working toward secure attachment for long-term relational success. If you’re struggling with attachment challenges, consider joining the Attachment Repair Program to build healthier, lasting relationships.

Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!
If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist’ https://youtu.be/QiPEH0o3EKA

Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount
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Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.

Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.

Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com

Friday Feb 14, 2025

Aurora Culpo: ‘I Only Date Avoidant Men…’ Here’s Why

Friday Feb 14, 2025

🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with hosts Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media.
In this episode, Aurora Culp opens up about her experiences with relationships, attachment styles, and why she tends to be drawn to avoidant men. Through personal stories and deep reflections, she explores the patterns that have shaped her love life and what she’s doing to break free from unhealthy cycles.
✨ Main Topics Covered:
👉 Aurora’s struggles with dating and attraction to avoidant men👉 The role of attachment theory in romantic relationships👉 How childhood dynamics with parents influence partner choices👉 The challenges of dating emotionally unavailable partners👉 The importance of secure attachment and emotional intimacy👉 Strategies for fostering healthier relationships and breaking toxic cycles👉 How waiting three months before commitment can impact dating outcomes
If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns, this episode is for you. Aurora’s journey highlights the power of self-awareness and growth when it comes to love and attachment.
Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist’ https://youtu.be/QiPEH0o3EKA
Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.
Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
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The next episode drops Thursday :)See you there.

Friday Feb 07, 2025

"I Lost My Fiance in a Plane Crash… Then I Learned the Truth" Stephanie Quayle's Heartbreaking Story

Friday Feb 07, 2025

🎙️ This week’s episode features Stephanie Quayle who lost her fiancé in a tragic plane crash. She was consumed by grief—until she uncovered a shocking truth that turned her world upside down. What followed was a painful battle with betrayal, self-destruction, and the struggle to rebuild her sense of self.
✨ In this episode:👉 The devastating loss that changed everything👉 Discovering painful truths after her fiancé’s death👉 How grief led to self-destruction and emotional rehab👉 Overcoming attachment wounds and learning to trust again👉 Finding love and building a healthy relationship after betrayal
This is not your typical relationship advice. Tune in as we break down common myths, share personal stories, and give you actionable tips to make your relationship stronger than ever. 🎧
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If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Inside the Mind of Avoidant Women | Avoidant Attachment”’https://youtu.be/cMoUZ8UmZpY
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The next episode drops Thursday :)See you there.

Friday Jan 31, 2025

Inside the Mind of Avoidant Women | Avoidant Attachment

Friday Jan 31, 2025

This week’s episode features Jessica Preston who dives into the complexities of avoidant attachment in women, exploring personal experiences, emotional patterns, and the impact of past relationships.
🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with hosts Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media.

The discussion highlights the struggles of avoidant individuals in forming deep connections, the role of masculine and feminine dynamics, and the journey toward self-awareness and healing.
✨ Key Moments ✨
👉 Personal realization of avoidant attachment after multiple divorce
👉 Audience reflections on avoidance and self-acceptance
👉 The preference for being labeled an "island" over "avoidant"
👉 Introduction to the Attachment Repair Program for healing
👉 How avoidance develops as a self-protection mechanism
👉 The impact of avoidant attachment on past relationships
👉 Exploring masculine and feminine dynamics in attachment styles
👉 Evolutionary perspective on avoidant attachment and survival instincts
👉 How early life experiences shape long-term attachment patterns
👉 Navigating relationships with newfound awareness of avoidance

This conversation emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, personal growth, and addressing deep-seated attachment issues. Whether you're struggling with avoidance yourself or seeking to understand someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights and practical steps toward healing. 🎧

If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘The #1 Reason Most Relationships Fail (And How to Avoid It)’
https://youtu.be/o5cxBp1oBGk

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Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com

A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.

Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.
Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com
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The next episode drops Thursday :)
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